Monday, June 22, 2020

Growth Management

Because one of the hardest things I've ever experienced is the healthy relationship after the toxic one.
In a perfect world, there wouldn't be a toxic relationship.....but in the one I exist in, there's been many. Soo many terrible relationships to taint my view. 🤔🤔🤔 All in all, I wouldn't change a thing for the world. I wouldn't change the butterflies or the faux love or the expectations or the broken promises because that woke me up.
When I met the man who inspired me to continue to bring forth the peace within, I had to take a hard look at myself. I had to see who I really was, flaws and all. I had to explore strengths and weaknesses I didn't even know I had. I found a beauty in me that I couldn't see until I laid eyes on this man. The healthy relationship comes with introspection and a mirror that will pick you apart faster than some women can pick apart their bodies. But it also comes with an abundance of love, calm, and relief, even on the difficult days. It comes with understanding and communication. And disagreements. And growth. And reality, LOADS of reality that ends with a fairytale because once you find a healthy balance that promotes growth for both, you've found PERFECTION!!! #blacklove #blackcouplesmatter #blackcouples #blacklovematters

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